What will make you happy?

That is such an easy question, which normally will require an easy answer. Not in this case though. We seem to be able to say in such instances that a certain thing or things will make us happy but when or if we get what we want, we see that it's not what we wanted in the first place, or that grass that looked so damn green and freshly trimmed on the other side of the gate, actually has an infestation of fleas and ticks. What I'm trying to say is when your with someone and you see someone else that your attracted to, you might really think that your life will be better with that person. That person might do things differently than the person your with. But who's to say that different is actually better. Now don't get me wrong if your with someone who's physically, mentally, sexually, or abusing you in any other way and the person you want to be with is not then move the HELL AROUND ! ! ! But if the person your with is at least "trying" and the key word is trying, then maybe your the one who has to pick up the slack to show how much your relationship has the potential to be the best it can be. . .

Am I Wrong?

I once asked the question to a friend of mine "Is it wrong to be exclusive with someone and think of another?" Of course he immediately thought i was thinking about him. NOT ! Now don't get me wrong I'm not trying to jump in bed with anyone else but there are those thoughts sometimes lingering around "What if this, what if that." I am in a happy relationship with a wonderful man, so why don't i fell happy at all times? Why do i have to pick and choose the day and times to be truly happy or to complain about what would "possibly make me happy" I don't know maybe i want my cake and eat it too. I am kind of fond of cake too. . . LOL